{"id":2622,"date":"2019-10-02T11:00:05","date_gmt":"2019-10-02T15:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.syracusewomanmag.com\/?p=2622"},"modified":"2019-10-02T11:00:05","modified_gmt":"2019-10-02T15:00:05","slug":"from-the-editor-its-national-domestic-violence-awareness-month","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.syracusewomanmag.com\/?p=2622","title":{"rendered":"FROM THE EDITOR: It&#8217;s National Domestic Violence Awareness Month"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>October is usually our \u201cPink\u201d edition, but I thought it was important that we devote some space this month to another public health crisis that actually affects more women.<\/p>\n<p>While one in eight women will face a breast cancer diagnosis, one in four\u2014some studies say as many as one in three\u2014will be abused by a partner. And while October is traditionally recognized as Breast Cancer Awareness Month, it\u2019s also National Domestic Violence Awareness Month.<\/p>\n<p>As a general rule, I don\u2019t include outside content in the magazine\u2014we have enough great contributors that we don\u2019t need syndicated articles. But I received this column a few months ago from Dr. Buck Blodget, a chiropractor who became an author and motivational speaker after his daughter, Jessie, was murdered when she was 19 by a friend. In the wake of her death, Dr. Blodgett founded The LOVE&gt;hate Project (light.org). Parts of his letter really resonated with me, particularly his title: \u201cIs It Time to Treat\u00a0Violence\u00a0Against Women as a National Emergency?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So I wanted to share his letter with you here and encourage you to watch out for your sisters, your daughters, your friends, yourselves: help is a phone call away.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Is It Time to Treat Violence Against Women as a National Emergency?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>By Dr. Buck Blodgett<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Each day in the United States women are victims of all types of\u00a0violence\u00a0at the hands of men \u2013 murder, domestic abuse, sexual assault \u2013 yet too often as a nation we take little or no notice.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>But on occasion, for some of us, the\u00a0violence\u00a0hits home and can no longer be ignored. My daughter, Jessie, was 19 when she was raped and murdered in our home by a friend.\u00a0Her death left me stunned, shocked and filled with anguish, yet also inspired me to do all I can to prevent such horrors from happening to others in the future.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>During her brief life, Jessie developed a strong social conscience. Ironically, her biggest cause was women victimized by male\u00a0violence. Her legacy, The LOVE&gt;hate Project (www.ligth.org), is dedicated to ending\u00a0violence\u00a0against women and inspiring people to choose love over hate.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Essentially, we would like to see\u00a0violence\u00a0against women treated as the national emergency it is. Sadly, not only has male against female\u00a0violence\u00a0been going on since the dawn of mankind, but often the attacker is a spouse, boyfriend, ex, or someone close.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Nearly one in four adult women have\u00a0experienced severe physical\u00a0violence\u00a0from an intimate partner in their lifetime, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>The CDC also reports that 16 percent of women\u00a0have experienced some form of contact sexual\u00a0violence\u00a0from an intimate partner, such as rape, sexual coercion, and\/or unwanted sexual contact.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>And 10 percent of women report they have been stalked by an intimate partner.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>(Men can also be victims in these situations. For example, the CDC reports that one in seven adult men have experienced severe physical\u00a0violence\u00a0from an intimate partner.)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Certainly,\u00a0violence\u00a0against women is a large societal problem that won\u2019t easily be solved, but here are ways to begin the process:<\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Encourage victims to break the silence.\u00a0Most victims of sexual\u00a0violence never tell anyone. Instead, they keep a dark secret that haunts them, hurts them, erodes their faith in humanity, ruins their faith in men, renders some suicidal or depressed, kills their happiness and self-esteem, and leaves them incapable of having a trusting relationship with a soul mate. One of the core messages for LOVE&gt;hate is this: It\u2019s OK to talk about it. In fact, it\u2019s required for healing.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Be aware of the message you convey at home.\u00a0For men especially, it\u2019s important to realize that how you treat women in your home sends a message to your sons. For both parents, it\u2019s important to talk to sons about how they should treat women and girls.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Hold people accountable, but consider the importance of forgiveness. One thing that many people struggle to understand is that I chose to forgive Jessie\u2019s killer. I realize that\u2019s difficult to comprehend, because so many people in the same situation likely would seek revenge rather than offer forgiveness. For me, this was important as a way to show that hate would not win out over love. But don\u2019t misunderstand. Even though I chose forgiveness, I also wanted Jessie\u2019s killer held accountable for his actions. I knew how sick and dangerous he was, and that he could never be allowed the freedom to harm anyone again.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>The bottom line is that it\u2019s too late for Jessie, but not too late for millions of girls and women \u2013 if we educate, motivate and inspire people to end the\u00a0violence.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>My question is: How many more Jessies will there be before we get the job done?\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24\/7 at 1-800-799-7233 (TTY 1-800-787-3224).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>October is usually our \u201cPink\u201d edition, but I thought it was important that we devote some space this month to another public health crisis that actually affects more women. While one in eight women will face a breast cancer diagnosis, one in four\u2014some studies say as many as one in three\u2014will be abused by a&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":2623,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[104,101,717],"tags":[971,718,985,984,973],"class_list":["post-2622","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-causes","category-features","category-from-the-editor","tag-domestic-violence","tag-letter-from-the-editor","tag-national-domestic-violence-awareness-month","tag-national-emergency","tag-survivor-issue"],"gutentor_comment":0,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.syracusewomanmag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/end-DV.png?fit=1225%2C1495&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2567,"url":"https:\/\/www.syracusewomanmag.com\/?p=2567","url_meta":{"origin":2622,"position":0},"title":"SPECIAL FEATURE: \u2018No woman should die of breast or ovarian cancer:\u2019 CNY\u2019s Hope for Heather reports back following 2019 National Conference","author":"syracusewomanmag_c4lfdt","date":"September 3, 2019","format":false,"excerpt":"BY FARAH F. 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